Why do we as humans always get mad at one another when we've both been played for a fool by a loved one? My dear sister is in a complete state of rage because the wife of her ex-lover is pissed at her because they were together and both are in turn behaving quite childishly toward one another. No she shouldnt have cheated with the guy since they were both married, got that, not trying to defend it.
My wonder is over how it always plays out this way, the guy or I guess even the girl break their vows or promises if you arent married and while we as humans get upset over that we take our rage out on the "other person" like it is all somehow their doing. Not so. The betrayal of your vows was made by your partner. More than likely they started off telling this other person they werent married. If they did say they were married then I can assure you that you were made out to be the villian of the century in your every word and deed. Your partner put on this cloak and hid the truth from this person they became involved with just as they hid the truth of that involvement from you. The only person either of you should be enraged by is the partner that cheated on you. They should bear the brunt of your unleashed anger, not in any kind of physical way but for sure you should let them hear all the hurt and anger you have stored inside and are unleashing on the wrong person.
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